Dating sucks

“simer190 - Dude, you are bonking his little sister! ;)
Give him a little time to adjust, but let her tell him to cool it.”

“He needs to grow up.
She is his sister not is pet dog. He has no ownership over her and she needs to tell him so.”

“He granted you "permission" to have sex with his sister, huh?

WHat does your gf have to say about all of this?”

“Dude, run.

If she comes from a family that screwed up, you will only have more trouble down the road.

Find a girl from a normal family.


Trust me on this one.”

“Sheesh--you make her sound like a peice of property. She belongs to herself, not to you and not to her brother.”

“Bit....define normal?”

“She got you, bit! ;)”

“Well, maybe a family where the older brother doesn't hand out permission to have sex?

Normal is relative.”

“LOl..yes..I have never asked my older brother...LOL”

“Don't sweat the abnormal family Simer. There are NO normal families. The degree of bizarreness differs, but abnormal reigns. However, I'm w/ MaryPhyl, she belongs only to herself. Her brother has no say in anything. SHE should be the one to say that to him, then you can just back her on it.”

“I dunno, my family is normal.”

“Okay, okay . . . there is one normal family and it belongs to HPM! LOL!”

“I want to meet them, HPM, when we come down to Fla! You'll have to meet mine, too.

I'll report back!”

“Personally, I think the "permission for sex" thing is right out and symptomatic of a deeper dysfunction in the family. What's next, permission to have kids? Permission to buy a house?

Unless she's willing to tell her brother he's out of line, then I'd move on, dude.”

“I agree w/ bit and newgirl, it is up to the girl to say something to her brother.”

“lets see marriage sucks, divorce sucks, dating sucks so it seems in general that love sucks also.

Question is why do we do it if it is all bad.

I know we look for that one bright spot that will make us happy but it seems it never finds us or it just wasn't meant to be with the person we thought was our shining light.

Maybe there needs to be a life sucks thread that handles all of the crap that goes with it.”

“Y'all come on down.”

“It all gets sucky at times but it doesn't suck all the time.”

“Does "seeing each other" mean I have an actual "boyfriend" or does it just mean I have a "boy-friend?"”

“wooooo, newgirl has a boyfriend, newgirl has a boyfriend!
;-)”

“That's what I'm asking Lyra . . . does "seeing each other" mean I can call him my "boyfriend?" Or do you have to be dating or something else?”

“he should ask you if you'll be his girlfriend! :-) also, if you both understand that you're not seeing anyone else, i'd say he is.

awww, how exciting!”

“Just ask him.
Yo muttonhead! Are you my man or what? Yes? Then get me a drink.”

“Hey, Newgirl, I don't recall giving you permission to have a boyfriend!”

“Uh oh, aero's turned into newgirl's crazy older brother!”

“See, I have such an abnormal family that men have to get permission from Aero!!! LOL!

HPM, you kill me. He did buy my drinks the other night. I don't think we are exclusive yet though.”

“Yes! Permission granted!”

“That'a a relief cause ya know Aero could kill this guy, and probably get away with it too.”

“Thank you Aero! I'll be sure to let him know.”

“This is Montana; shoot, shovel and shut-up!”

“I want to see the look in that guy's eyes when newgirl tells him aero has granted them permission to have sex...lol...”

“yeah, "The guy on the internet told me it was OK!"”

“Hey Aero, he was a runner for U of M. Maybe you've heard of him?”

“Wilma, er newgirl, just introduce him as Fred, or whatever his name is.”

“oh oh...”

“Did Aero give him permission to date or have sex?

I thought in Montana that sex permission required the guy to pay the Permissor with chickens and pies. Kind of a barter system thing.”

“you should post a picture, newgirl! we'll tell you if he's hot enough for you.”

“Newgirl, what are his intials? What year was he there? Also, does he have a job?”

“I thought he was granting permission for us to date. I'm not having sex w/ anyone.”

“Oh yah, my bad. Sorry.”

“That's what I thought.”

“Darn, I was hoping for some chickens and pies!”

“I'm glad to know Aero wasn't gyped out of his chickens and pies.”

“His intials are C.T. He would have been there Fall '97 to May '01 or '02. Yes, he has a great job, not in his degree, but a good job.”

“I've always been a bit protective of my little sister. Dad and I have been known to experience a sudden, overwhelming desire to clean and oil the family firearm collection whenever a guy was supposed to show up and take my sister out on a date.

;-)

But c'mon. 'Granting permission to have sex'?!?!?!

That's straight up wierd.”

“Aero must have had to do some real work. Let me know if you know who he is or I'll just e-mail you. I'm sure you'll know him.”

“Did Aero give him permission to date or have sex? - HPM

Aero - May I please have permission to both date and have sex with newgirl? ;)







Just kidding, just kidding newgirl!”

“Good try Stove. Good try.”

“whoa... that kind of exploded, i mean.. n/m. As for the "permission to have sex" that kind of came from a conversation that we had, where he was testing me whether or not I would obey him when he told me not to have sex with his little sister, I told him that I would respect her decisions and her body, and after a long discussion he basically said that he wanted us to do what we wanted and he wouldn't get in the way.

As for possession or property, I am aware that I do not "own" her, neither does her brother, and she makes her own decisions, I know how much her brother means to her, and how much I mean to her, and I know she'd never leave me because of her brother, but she would never sacrifice the relationship with her brother, so she will not rest until he understands everything.

Yes, her brother thinks he has control over her life and can tell her what to do, which bothers me, I don't understand the guy at all, maybe if i understood him i could straighten things out. What it comes down to is that I will not move on, I would like to straighten things out.
Basically, he's not afraid of losing his sister to a guy, just afraid of losing his sister to a guy that he doesn't agree with, and because he know's my friend so well(mauler) and he was the one that got the two together, he wanted to see them together forever, then I came into the picture and messed everything up for him. Now, I know that he shouldn't need this kind of control over his sister, but I can't control how he feels or what he thinks, and I'm not about to move on. Maybe I'll get to know the guy better, and it will take time, but I know we'll be able to work everything out.”

“The plot thickens....
simer took mauler's (his travel companion from TCII) girl from him.
Cool!”