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can we get a little CORN on the side of that, bitpusher?

:-D
lyra
12:43:50 PM
12/15/03

and maybe some MOUNTains in the background? LMAO!
lyra
12:45:14 PM
12/15/03

My Gawd! Lyra, have you and the Tarprific not been getting 'er done enough lately? You're pretty excited here. LOL!
newgirl
12:46:36 PM
12/15/03

It was the meat.
bitpusher
12:48:15 PM
12/15/03

oh NO she did not! :-o
lyra
12:49:52 PM
12/15/03

LOL @ Lyra.
newgirl
12:51:07 PM
12/15/03

I've gotto remember those lines :o)
ynamiynami
12:53:43 PM
12/15/03

if you did that, i'm pretty sure you'd be doomed, ynami. ;-)

LOL @ newgirl, too!
lyra
12:59:33 PM
12/15/03

Dating Rulz - Here is my online dating profile

I'll let y'all know how it turns out.
Buddha Bear
10:45:41 PM
12/15/03

ROFLMAO at my new, true profile. I've never been so satisfied with anything in my entire life!
Buddha Bear
10:48:03 PM
12/15/03

Buddha, You slay me! What amazes me most, though, is that you took the time to fill all that out. Damn, boy, I've got some kitchen cabinets in need of repair and my bathroom needs to be repainted. If you've got the time, I can keep you busy! LOL
sunshine
11:06:00 PM
12/15/03

What's more amazing is that I bet you'll get some responses from that!

Like the part about faith best.
Roam Around
11:07:04 PM
12/15/03

sunshine
talk to gogo
stumprider
11:16:12 PM
12/15/03

aww man, i couldn't read the profile! something about being timed out. my friend has gone on dates with 2 different guys using Match.com. the last one, though, she didn't like so much...so she made out with some other guy that night, instead. LMAO!!
lyra
8:16:11 AM
12/16/03

Making out is fun.

Just sayin'.
newgirl
10:13:11 AM
12/16/03

Is it weird if I write him an e-mail just to say I was thinking about how great the date was?

Guys, would you like that or think it's too much?
newgirl
10:23:56 AM
12/16/03

I don't think that's too much, just don't write an email that says how you're dreaming of having his babies and if he doesn't want that then you have to kill him. That would be freaky.
bitpusher
10:25:45 AM
12/16/03

That's cool Newgie - e-mail is good way of doing it. If it were me I'd think of some other excuse to write, and then add the bit about just how dreamy the date was.
ynamiynami
10:27:48 AM
12/16/03

Yeah, no crap Bit. I think I'll prolly be able to avoid writing something like that.

He doesn't want babies until he's 32. We have 7 yrs. LOL!!!! I'm kidding.
newgirl
10:28:38 AM
12/16/03

Hey, I was 32 when my first one was born. It's a good age to have kids, for a man, anyway.
bitpusher
10:29:43 AM
12/16/03

LOL! It seems like a rather arbitary (sp?) age to choose, but if it worked for you, great.
newgirl
10:34:46 AM
12/16/03

lol, well, it's not like we chose that age or anything, it's just how it worked out. We were going to wait until after I finished school, then right before I finished, I quit my job and it took me most of a year to find another one. We probably would have waited longer if my wife hadn't pressed the issue, because I wanted to be sure I was going to keep the job that I had. Anyway, it just ended up that I was 32 when my daughter was born.
bitpusher
10:38:45 AM
12/16/03

Damn. Ynami, I already wrote it. I just said straight up that I've been thinking about it. Oh gawd, he's going to think I'm a cheese queen.
newgirl
10:43:19 AM
12/16/03

I think you're overanalyzing, newgie. I know if I were in his place, I'd be glad to get an email from you saying how much you enjoyed some time with me.
bitpusher
10:49:31 AM
12/16/03

Well that's all good too. If he likes you as much as you seem to like him then he'll be vey happy to get it.
And with my track record on romance, you're far better off listening to someone else ;o)
ynamiynami
10:50:40 AM
12/16/03

Well, things are not getting any better... They just keep getting worse every day. Ever feel like kicking somebody's ass? But you know if you tried you would get your ass kicked, or even if you succeeded it would only make things worse. Ever feel like you totally do not understand a person, and the only thing you really want in life is to be accepted.

I don't #&%!$ing care if he ever likes me, as long as he accepts me and quits playing this bull#&%!$ with me. I'm serious, I never knew one person could be such an #&%!$, burn in hell mother#&%!$er!!
simer190
10:54:59 AM
12/16/03

hell Bit, you would like to get a email from any female saying they enjoyed being with you ;)
Ewker
10:55:23 AM
12/16/03

Well, that is true, Ewker. lol...
bitpusher
10:56:50 AM
12/16/03

of course I can relate to that myself...lol
Ewker
10:58:53 AM
12/16/03

Hey, Lobo, just curious. What kind of bovines were they?
vicsaw
11:03:53 AM
12/16/03

Ewker - Yep, that would be a nice awitch.
StoveStomper
11:06:07 AM
12/16/03

A witch! A witch!

Burn her!
bitpusher
11:07:31 AM
12/16/03

lol, and nobody even cares
simer190
2:19:53 PM
12/16/03

Heck, it's the same thing over and over simer. What do you expect us to say that we haven't already?
bitpusher
2:21:36 PM
12/16/03

Just take out a contract on him Simer ;o)
ynamiynami
2:22:14 PM
12/16/03

lol, i know... just venting steam, i don't expect you to say anything, sorry to clutter up your precious board with my junk...
simer190
2:25:46 PM
12/16/03

So, I decided to get my beau a gift certificate to Cabella's and tell him that I will take him on a trip there (about 1.5 hrs away), including dinner and hotel stay overnight. Also got him a rubber band gun to "shoot" the kids at school or even his housemates. I think he'll like it. :)
smiley girl
2:54:55 PM
12/16/03

Mmmmm, nice gift Smiley. Sounds exciting.
newgirl
2:56:32 PM
12/16/03

I bet Smiley gets shot a couple of times to :)
Ewker
3:01:58 PM
12/16/03

Simer, if you don't expect anyone to say anything, then why the "lol, and nobody even cares" comment? That to me suggests that you at least expect commiseration.

OK, I'll be totally frank with you.

The relationship is doomed. You're just too young and naive to see it. Her brother won't ever let up on you. Unless you're willing to be his b!tch for the rest of your life, you may as well get out now. Yes, that's what he wants. Yes, if you do that he will win. Life's tough like that sometimes.

You keep alluding to "not ever having to work again" and "her family being real fixed up". Well, let me draw you a little picture. Nutty people with money (her brother) get away with stuff. If you should ever decide to show enough balls to stand up to him, he'll just hire some tough guys to kick your ass and leave you a snowbank sometime.

Save yourself some trouble and move on. Blame it on her brother, and consider it a lesson learned.
bitpusher
3:09:00 PM
12/16/03

that is an awesome gift, smiley! i would love it if i were him! don't forget the corn on the side.
;-D
lyra
3:10:18 PM
12/16/03

I can't imagine what lyra is talking about...
bitpusher
3:10:48 PM
12/16/03

he needs to check in!!!"
divinity

I'm here. Been busy, but expect to post a trip report by
Christmas. And I'm anxious to see you at Ocala NF-3 or
sooner. I still remember your beautiful smile.

nowslimmer

There now he knows how to talk to a woman!!!!
divinity
3:17:21 PM
12/16/03

Ewker, I guarantee I'll get shot. I'm sure he'll have to test it out on me first just to make sure it works.

OK, I thought about it for a minute, but I don't get what Lyra said. I feel so stupid!!
smiley girl
3:21:41 PM
12/16/03

it's just a reference to the time when newgirl said she "corned" one of her friends, instead of "cornered." it's supposed to imply something dirty! or something like that.
:-)
lyra
3:24:46 PM
12/16/03

..says lyra, Queen of corning...
bitpusher
3:25:30 PM
12/16/03

see bit I don't agree with you. Standing up to him doesn't necessarily involve fighting. Personally I'd just ignore him and get on with your own life - with or without that girlfriend.
ynamiynami
3:28:07 PM
12/16/03

I agree with ynami. But much of what you said is tru bit. I'd get along without. We haven't heard much about the relationship, mostly about the power struggle. Nobody wins man
dhutch1
3:29:57 PM
12/16/03

I corn you not!
aero
3:31:25 PM
12/16/03

I'd agree if I thought it was up to Simer, but it doesn't appear as if it is. The brother's in control of this situation, apparently.

And I wasn't suggesting that Simer fight him. Just saying that any resistance to the brother will be pointless as long as his girlfriend won't tell the brother to back off, or if the brother won't back off anyway.

You have spoken to your girlfriend about this, right, Simer?
bitpusher
3:33:12 PM
12/16/03

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