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What would be the reaction if it were a man and a women instead?

Many of us have encountered such a heterosexual situation in the outdoors and the usual response is just a smile, a quick exit, and an apologetic "Excuse me!" with no negative feelings. Why is this situation treated differently?

So bacpac is right. The far left lunatic fringe represented by this board are hypocrites. They adamantly refuse to practice what they preach.
gordon
5:15:55 PM
5/22/02

Gordie, be a good boy and let the rest of BOO HOO's personalities have a say. You've already had yours.
Father Goose
5:17:56 PM
5/22/02

WhiskeyLake, thanks for your comment. I started to write the same thing, but decided it would sound better coming from someone who is NOT from Alabama.
dayhiker
5:18:44 PM
5/22/02

Gordon, I for one, have never been witness to anyone in any kind of sex act and would prefer to keep it that way. I wouldn't want to see 2 men, 2 women, a man and a woman, any human and animal, etc. It is a private affair and people should keep it that way.
newgirl
5:28:09 PM
5/22/02

Do not assume they were Alabamans. They could be visiting from Arkansas -- clinton's state or Tennessee -- home of algore.
gordon
5:28:57 PM
5/22/02

They could even have been from your hometown, eh Gordon? Do you have some inside information?
Phaedrus
5:30:35 PM
5/22/02

If your homosexual that is fine by me, but you don't need to make it a public enterprise. I'm a heterosexual, but you don't see me doing it in the middle of some trail. Either way, I think it is offensive and disrespectful of others to make a show of your sexual practices.
newgirl
5:32:51 PM
5/22/02

Don't forget TExas!
roseymonster
5:33:38 PM
5/22/02

Or quite likely Davis, CA. After all, Davis is a BEDROOM suburb of San Francisco.
gordon
5:40:17 PM
5/22/02

Phaedrus - yes, the geeky sounding voice was mine. I can't really sing, so I try to find other creative ways to get my voice on my music. :-)
Artex
5:49:19 PM
5/22/02

Oh yeah, I'm the keyboardist as well. I did everything with that song, including the mixing.
Artex
5:50:04 PM
5/22/02

By the way, you're only against it because you don't want to give in to your secret urges, and you fear that if you see it, you will." Phaedrus
05:03:07 PM
05/22/02

Why does this retort always enter into the discussion? What kind of twisted logic is required for a statement like this to make sense?

It is not logical. It is an attack liberals use, because they have no better arguement. It is more logical and more likely that advocates for homosexuals are in fact homosexuals.
bacpac
7:10:39 PM
5/22/02

WHO CARES...leatherneck saw something indecent, sick and funny....stop using everything in the world to get on a soap box and preach....lets not drive everything into the ground and be at one anothers throats 24/7
OPIE
7:50:51 PM
5/22/02

a few weeks ago me & my 3 boys(10, 8 & 4 yrs old) were day hikin from our camp & happened upon a "couple". they were older guys & completely dressed & not being crude in any way. I saw them hugging before they saw me. But as I said, it wasn't uncomfortable or wierd really. they had a camp set up by the river. i was goin.....ok boys, lets get back to camp. lol. but geesh, doin the willie wonka fudge factory right on da trail, that's just criminal. i'd have been PISSED if my kids seen that!
stratdewd
7:52:41 PM
5/22/02

Logic?
Where is the logic is your dislike of homosexualtiy, BP? You're the last one around here who should be throwing logic stones. I'd say that most often, it's your opinions that are the unexamined ones.
Phaedrus
8:04:14 PM
5/22/02

I guess it is the same logic that liberals use when they say this act offends them. I am just honest enough to admit it. Why do liberals cringe at the thought of two men buggering each other in a park, but support homosexuality? Where is the logic in that.
bacpac
8:19:12 PM
5/22/02

artex, you jam?
you got recordings artex? well lets hear it dood! we(my band) have a demo cd with 5 songs on it. we're gonna do a real one in the fall.


Where is the logic is your dislike of homosexualtiy, BP? Pheadrus

phaed, one's personal taste or preferences don't have to be logical. I thought your statement( "By the way, you're only against it because you don't want to give in to your secret urges, and you fear that if you see it, you will." Phaedrus ) was a vast overgeneralization, if you were serious. i am not homophobic or prejiduce agin em at all. but some people are highly offended by it, especially a public display against their will. it doesnt make them bad.
stratdewd
8:19:44 PM
5/22/02

All right, I'll weigh in one more time here. Mother Goose and I spent our Thanksgiving last year at Hobb's Cabin. Both our parents are gone, we have no kids, so it seemed like the perfect thing to do.
We hiked to the cabin fully expecting to have it all to ourselves. I was just fixin' to pee off the back deck when a feminine voice yells, "Hello, there!" I quickly zip up, walk to the front and two ladies walk up with their packs on. "Can we share the cabin?", one asks. I'm thinking to myself, "Well, merde, there goes the friggin' weekend". But what am I gonna do, tell 'em, hell no, you'll have to sleep on the ground? So, like the softy I am, I tell the girls to bring their stuff in, Sylvia and I will move our belongings and make room. Before long, it became apparent that these two were a couple. Nothing blatant, but it was evident. Neither Mother Goose or myself were uncomfortable. They were both congenial, pleasant company. A good weekend was had by all.
And yes, bacpac and gordon(and all the rest of BOO HOO's manifestations), I would have been just as comfortable had they been male, as long as they had the same demeanor as the women.
We ran into each other later at the winery in Monteagle. Hugs all 'round. I'd hike with either of them any time.
The point to all this rambling is that some buttheads on this site make a lot of unwarranted suppositions. People who know me will tell whoever will listen that I am anything but liberal. What I am is tolerant. I don't give a rat's a$$ how you conduct your life as long as you don't try to force your mores down my throat. If you're pleasant, I will be as well.

As a side note, I lived every man's fantasy for four days, alone in a cabin in the wilderness with three women. Unfortunately...
Father Goose
8:31:57 PM
5/22/02

Had I been in Leatherneck's place I would have been disgusted. But that would be the case were they 2 men, 2 women, or a man and a woman. There's no place for that in public areas and they should have been someplace more private. My previously posted response would also apply in any case.
skullcap
8:41:12 PM
5/22/02

lmfao father, ya had me goin fer a minute there! i was gonna start playin porn music on ma strat with my wah wah pedal .. ..... . .. ... . . . bow, chicka bow bow


too bad you blew it! i mean crud dood, that's like discovering plutonium by accidnet!
stratdewd
8:44:09 PM
5/22/02

Yeah, Strat. One was my wife and the other two were lezzo. Damn the luck!
Father Goose
8:46:37 PM
5/22/02

Play me sumpin' sad, Strat!
Father Goose
9:01:52 PM
5/22/02

Bacpac,

There you go again. You define what "liberal" is in your mind: any thinking, rational adult who disagrees with your opinions. Then you class them into the pre-existing box of thought you have already applied to several others. Next, when they surprize you with an original thought or idea (and I'm sure you get surprized often), you cry foul, and claim they aren't sticking to the "liberal rules".

In short, you're the person with the problem. Get over yourself.

Second, I have yet to see anyone here claim to be anything other than disgusted by this behavior in public, be it gay or straight. You and gordon brought the whole idea of homophobia into the mix, and probably for good reason - You're self-admitted homophobes.
Phaedrus
9:09:59 PM
5/22/02

Don't try to put me into a box, you'll drown in your psycho-babbling brook!
Father Goose
9:16:20 PM
5/22/02

aaaaaaack! Sorry leatherman, but I am glad it was you instead of me that had to witness that.
chili36
9:48:52 PM
5/22/02

Stratdewd - Yeah, I jam but not with guitars. I'm into electronic music, and write and produce a lot of that just for fun. If you want to give it a listen, check out this link: http://artists.mp3s.com/artists/354/hunt_the_wumpus.html

I would have turned the above into a link but I'm about to crash. I'd love to hear your band, stratdewd, you guys on the internet? If you haven't yet, check out putting your stuff up on mp3.com like I did. It's free and easy, and you can make your music more accesible to others (including fellow TT'ers!).
Artex
10:05:32 PM
5/22/02

Leatherneck
Man, that would be a terrible thing to see! I will never go back to Monte Sano. EVER!!!!!
I'm glad you didn't go into graphic details.
walkindude
10:12:34 PM
5/22/02

Walkincat, I hike Monte Sano twice a week and every weekend and I have never seen anything like that. I'd say our brother Leatherneck came across an anomaly. Hell, bro, you could run into that $hit anywhere. Don't let it stop you from living! Forge ahead!
Father Goose
10:19:48 PM
5/22/02

phaedrus/kleety, I didn't coin the word liberal, but I define liberals as a fractious group of people who talk of utopian society with no rules, restrictions, or responsibilities for their actions. My definition doesn't really matter. You will continue to insult and belittle me, because you really have no other ammunition.

We simply disagree.
bacpac
10:23:35 PM
5/22/02

"Can't we all just get along?"
stumprider
11:02:22 PM
5/22/02

Bacpac, you silly $hit, I refer you to my retort to your mindless bull$hit on the 'I apologize' thread.
Father Goose
11:07:33 PM
5/22/02

bacpac, if that's your definition for a liberal i must be a conservative. i strongly believe in rules, laws and personal responsibility, but i also will not judge people on personal, private topics like sexuality.
jmitch
7:23:33 AM
5/23/02

I don't know what the fuk a liberal is and don't realy care. As far as gay people go, I dig seeing chicks on chicks in a good skin flick. Who don't? As far a some guy banging some other guy's harry @ss, I don't wanna see or hear about it. That's pretty sick IMO. If that's what some people crave than I say what ever. I recon some get off on farm animals too.
This is a twisted world we live in.

Disclaimer: If I offended anyone by posting this than I'm sorry. Just wanted to state how I feel about it.
walkindude
7:43:27 PM
5/23/02

Walkindude...you've trully hurt my feelings..and abigails...i don't think my sweet sweet pink skinned sexy pig will get over it...*gleam in his eye*...oink..come here sexy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OPIE
9:04:47 PM
5/23/02

Ditto What walkindude said.


Leatherneck I thought you may be interested in this
http://www.whnt19.com/global/Frameset.asp?P=/Default.asp
BAMA
9:35:50 PM
5/23/02

Two girls together are HOT, if they're attractive. But two guys? Disgusting.
steve hiker
9:43:17 PM
5/23/02

Click on the "19 Extra" segment a little ways down the page.

That's another park in Huntsville where there has been trouble with this sort of thing.
bitpusher
9:57:51 PM
5/23/02

The page you are talking about seems to be temporarily down, Bitpusher, but I imagine it is about Brahan Spring. There has long been a problem there. Not much scares me, but even I wouldn't go THERE at night.
Father Goose
11:52:10 PM
5/23/02

Hey Bama
Is this a site that will get me in trouble at work? I have to be very careful about which sites I go to on my work system.

BTW, are you still hosting another ECT in the Sipsey in Sept. The last one was great even with all the work. I'm ready to do some real hiking in the Sipsey.
Leatherneck
5:26:14 AM
5/24/02

I don’t like certain foods. The thought of eating beef heart or brains turns my stomach. If my neighbor invited me to dinner and had a huge platter of heart and brains in the center of the table and sat there eating it, it would revolt me and make it hard to eat anything else offered.

I do not consider eating organ meat or brains to be an immoral practice and would happily live next door to someone who partakes in eating them, other things being equal.


If I were to come across any couple having sex while I was hiking with my kids, I would be angry. I would be shocked to see homosexual men or a heterosexual couple doing it in the middle of the trail. If I were hiking alone and the Hawaiian Tropics bikini team going at it in the middle of the trail, I would think that I’d died and gone to heaven.
Violin
8:54:38 AM
5/24/02

violin
well said bruh, but the closed minded will not get it.
stratdewd
9:14:50 AM
5/24/02

walkindude, your honesty is always a breath of fresh air.

Love him or hate him, walkindude is real.
bacpac
7:11:22 PM
5/24/02

Naw, the link was to a local T.V. station. It was talking about the same kind of problems you ran into in another park near where you were.

The hike is still on for the last of September. I'm going out there this Sunday around 4:00. I'll be leaving from the bridge area heading up turkey creek. I plan to camp at the 2nd waterfall. I will be doing some cross country on Monday and come out on the old Cullman motorway back down and cross Sipsey. Then up around Fall creek Falls and back out Monday evening. Come on out if you like.
Rabbitman was coming but couldn't make it. Your welcome to come along. I'll bring a radio and keep it on channel 1 if anyone wants to contact me.


BAMA
BAMA
2:48:24 AM
5/25/02

I agree about the Dude's honesty.

For myself: Its wrong to be doing it on the trail whether its two guys, two gals, a guy and gal or 7 guys, four gals and 16 circus animals.

The fact that I might get off on seeing two gals and would be turned off by seeing two guys - IMHO - has nothing to do with the right or wrong of it. (Bad analogy warning). Similarly, I think its wrong to listen to loud music in a crowded shelter at midnight. The fact that I might like it if its Led Zeppelin and really hate it if its Celine Dion would be important to me and how I felt.... but it wouldn't affect the basic principle of the thing
pedxing
11:32:31 AM
5/25/02

Actually thats where I see some inconsistency from some gay haters. If you complain about racist bigoted comments, they accuse you of being against any statement that hurts anyones feelings. Then they say that homosexuality is wrong because it grosses them out.

I have no trouble admitting that feel grossed out by the idea of doing a guy and I get turned on by the idea of doing it with a woman. If someone else feels turned on by doing it with a guy and grossed out about doing it with a woman, thats fine --- even if that someone is a guy. It doesn't mean I want to see them have sex, or even think about it.

Hey, now that I think about it BacPac: I really like the idea of seeing two women get it on, but find watching a man and a woman doing it to be unappealling. Does that mean I'm a hypocrite if I don't think lesbianism is better than heterosexuality?
pedxing
11:42:45 AM
5/25/02

Ped
I think you think too much.
LOL!!!!!
walkindude
1:43:13 PM
5/25/02

Good thing I'm heading back into the mountains in the morning eh Dude?

I spent Thursday night in the Whites with my dog... ran into a some ice/snow covered stretches of trail around 3700 feet and up. Came back yesterday, and head out with the kids in the morning. Being up there made me think of the 3 hikes I did with TT'ers last year (including you, Pete, Jerbear, Mad River and AmyG).
pedxing
8:31:03 PM
5/25/02


And since then....

Dang, a chick got arrested too. Interesting. ....but there's just something about Mary.
dayhiker
1:03:50 PM
2/02/06

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