confused - what should I do?

“Ok so heres the deal. I am a horrible sister. My sister has had the same girlfriend for almost six years now(shes 20). Her girlfriend, lets call her gina, has been in love with her since their freashmen year in highschool. Anyway, about a year ago my sister finaly comited to the realationship by telling gina that she loved her. Now all that is good and fine untill i come in. Im 16 and about a year in a half ago i feel in love with gina, whom i have known since i was very little. Last July i told her how i felt and we kissed, and other stuff. Now this is still going on to this day. But in october gina broke up with my sister even though they are still living together. Now i know im a major reason for the breakup. But my sister has no idea that i am soo involved with gina. I am still in love with gina, as she is with me, but i dont want to hurt my sister anymore. Gina and i have tried many times to stop our realationship but it doesnt work. What should i do?????
thanks for you help!”

“You should go backpacking, wretched troll!”

“I think you your sister and gina should come over to my place and we can re-enact this whole twisted tale to see where things went wrong. As God as my witness, I won't stop until we get it figured out.”

“LMFAO HYWAY!

this is a desperate cry for help.....”

“LMAO hyway!”

“You are a troll and you are wasting my time. Get a life and go backpacking.”

“Take Gina with you”

“You should all three get together and put a webcam in your bedroom.”

“ROFLMMFAO at hyway.”

“you should go down on your knees and prey for the poor souls that have lost there lives today. Today may not be the right time to troll. come back another day when America is not so sad.

ps your a MORON!

mapleleaf”

“Get thee to a nunnery!


Actually, I found out back in Shakespeare's day that phrase could be used as an insult; ie, you should be a whore.”

“Yes, today America is sad, we will mourn, we will grieve, we will weep. For today we lost a shuttle and astronauts in a yet unexplained event.

But why weren't we sad yesterday? Or why not tomorrow. Everyday, all across this country, children are left uncared for, abused, and left to fend for themselves. Countless numbers of people will be murdered today. Many more raped. A crack addict will starve to death somewhere in America today. An untold amount will succumb to cancer. Somewhere, someplace, in all liklihood, someone will drown. Another will die of electrocution. And yet another multitude will be killed in car collisions.

Why are we not sad and take a day in mourning everyday?

While the shuttle disaster is a horrible event, it is no more horrible that everyday life. To stop what we do and live under a cloud of despair is meaningless.

To say a prayer, to feel a gratitude for having another day of life, and to have hope for a brighter tomorrow is to pay tribute to all those who have reached the end of their journey on this planet.

Life has two definites,,,it begins, and it ends.”

“yes you are confused gina”

“Very well said chili.

While I'm listening to the whole horrible story unfold on the radio, things like this are giving me some perspective and making me laugh.

BTW...it also goes on.”

“chili chili chili... The meaningless of it all is dragging you down, my friend. Time for a backpacking trip.”

“meaninglessness... durnit”

“You speak wise words, chili. You said what I feel perfectly. People get all wrapped up in the death of superstars, moviestars, celebrities, (Princess Diana, for example) while people are dying all around them everyday.”