why dont men understand....

“BB- Not quite, think again, honey. I have better things to do than make up screen names and "Troll" and ask guy advice. If I wanted any kind of advice, unless it was for backpacking, I'd go to my friends or family.”

“Oh geez am I seeing #&%!$ again?

Damn I have to lay off that cheap Zin.”

“LOL bit!!!

Zin........the wine for college students....ahhhhhh back to the good ol' days.”

“Hey, when you go to Costco and two bottles of the stuff are under $10...well, 'nuff said...”

“Hey, zin is good stuff”

“I agree, Zin ain't so bad. Merlot is better, but well. Dark beer is preferable (yall can tell I'm real cultured now can't ya)”

“We some times would drink Blue Nun. Glass bottle, real cork. It has to be good.”

“I like Merlot too but it's not as good with pasta. I usually have a glass of the Zin with spaghetti or tortellini. Yum.”

“How Merlot can you go.”

“Merlot. That reminds me, I have a nice Pinot Noir...”

“enuff of this high faluten stuff... break out the mad dog 20/20.....”

“get over it, guys are not perfect, neither are women.

honestly though...I think guys do know how important it is to stay in touch...I just think the guy you are talking about doesn't care enough.

I am not saying this because I think you're a troll, that's my honest opinion. Maybe he did care, but if he's gone for a longer period of time...well, he had more fun without you. If he still would care, he most likley would keep in touch. Plain and simple as that!

Anyhow, whoever candycane is, she seams to think this subject is embarrassing enough to not use her real screen name.”

“If this guy disappoints you now, he's going to get on your every last nerve over the course of time. Let him be. Not saying you both don't care. But if you're so sure, why question his timing. It's part of him.”

“I am liking candycane more the scorchbreath.

Candy brings up a good point. Isn't loving a man enough? Does he even have to like you? If a woman loves a man he should instantly turn off any feelings he has for your hot girl friends. He should call every night and send fowers to work once a month.
She doesn't have to tell him she loves him, he will understand through osmosis.”

“Cats are far more loyal.

You need to give up on men and get yourself a few dozen cats.”

“Yeah, and he should know to empty the dishwasher the same way, through osmosis! That's the ticket, osmosis.”

“Men empty the dishwasher one plate at a time.”

“Would you please put those few dozen cats in the dishwasher and fire that sucker on up!

This remends me of one of those men/women maxims.

Women expect men to change and they don't.
Men expect women not to change and they do.”

“they just don't care. ;-)”

“I am liking candycane more the scorchbreath.

Well apparently I AM candycane, per BB.”

“"....like we were supposed to read minds....." Roam Around
09:18:12 PM
12/17/03

Yeah, real men don't read minds, they read lips,...in braille.
Unfortunately women have a different word for that too, groping j/k”

“Its as though we're expected to look at their ass and read their mind.”

“Sounds like Stormbringer is giving MamaBearGrrr the cold shoulder and she's pi$$ed off about it! LOL!

This sounds like a classic case of someone starting up a sexual relationship before the relationship is ready for it. IMHO sex is never casual. It is s serious thing and when you enter into a sexual relationship you are really opening yourself up to the person and actually giving a part of yourself away to them. This is why the more casual encounters you have the less you feel invested in the relationship.

So says Dr. Nigal. If I am mistaken in my assumption, please forgive me.










BTW- use your real name if you want real answers.”

“Try using Braille, Tom, and see how far you get!”

“Braille tattoos on their butts would help >:^O”

“without having to read 75 posts, can I get the short end of this story?

what did Buddur do again?”

“Candycane, how long have you been in this relationship with this guy? If it is a relatively short time (six months?), and he isn't hot to spend time with you, then I would say that you aren't even in the running for a serious relationship with him. Maybe you need to withdraw a bit, find another life with your friends, and carefully watch what happens. If he is not interested now, it isn't going to get a lot better later.”

“candycane never really gives us enough information to sufficiently assess her situation. If you want decent advice, you'll have to provide more info, candycane.”

“WTF is candycane?


a new troll?
and do we like her?”

“She won't because she(he?) is a troll.

Just trying to stir the pot with some general #&%!$ing about guys.

I wouldn't have responded last night, but I had had a couple of drinks and the anti-troll filter was down.”

“I don't know, I've been MIA around here lately. Is she someone who changed her name for Christmas?”

“Apparently, it is this one particular man that doesn't understand this one particular woman because this particular situation is particularly peculiar.

If you give half of yourself like you give half of the info, then it's no wonder he doesn't understand.”

“"candycane never really gives us enough information to sufficiently assess her situation..."
skiracer
08:21:39 AM
12/18/03

Hey Skiracer !

Not enough informations to ASS-ess her ASS-etts either”

“Where is Dr. Laura when you need her?”

“we all know men suck.

next question...



j/k guys, hey without treebeard I would be alone.

I keep him around for the amusment.”

“Yes, we all love candycane!”

“It could be Lyndy, which is why I'm beginning to hate the "changing names" thing.

candycane seems a little more clueless than most of our regular female posters though.”

“You're correct, manuka. Maybe candycane really is a troll.”

“but stoviehoney, those kinds of candycanes are good sucking candy.

this one just sucks.”

“Hey Bittushy, I am not Candycane! Now I am mad at you!

:)

The only time I have trolled is as Stella Della Donnatella or something like that.”

“No, Lyndy, I was answering you, not accusing you of being candycane.

Geez leave out one stinking comma and people get so riled up...”

“LMAO!!!! Now I have tears in my eyes.”

“Yawn, another Thursday morning here. How is everybody this morning? Anybody have any issues to discuss?”

“Hey Beety, how is you?”

“Yet another instance of someone asking for advice and then getting pi$$y because they get it and it's not what they wanted to hear. That's nothing new.


Candycane, if it's early-on in the relationship and you're already not getting what you need from it then you probably never will and it's time to move on. So what if you really like this guy? Odds are pretty good you'll really like someone else if you just go looking. There are too many men in this world to stress over one guy who's not giving you the attention you want. You can find someone who will.”

“So what was the question again?”

“Yes...I'd like to know why people feel it's OK to bring their sick kids to work!”

“Weren't we talking about this ?








Maybe not.”

“Lizs basically said the same thing to me, and she was right, as is Skully.
So, if your just dating and there are no kids involved, it's easy, just move on to the next DEWD.”

“I is fine Lyndy, how you is?”