Why Dating Rocks!

“Like sands through an hourglass... so are the days of our lives.”

“Ewker - I only date hotties that are bad for me.”
Bearmagnet
1:04:42 PM
11/04/04

You think I'm good?”

“You think I'm good?”
embear
2:41:11 PM
11/04/04

LMAO! Please interpret what I said with what you know of me:

"...that are bad for me.

i.e. Good girls are bad for me. ;)

Oh, and I attract psychos.

So....any bad girls that aren't psychos, here I am.

Yes, SC, you would be excluded! ;) LMFAO!”

“just a thought... I'm bad when I want to be, and good when I need to be. ;)

Sorry, BM, I'm still not interested. LOL.”

“Damn!

Oh well, don't think I would be good at the LD thang, anyway. Too much freedom of movement for me. ;)”

“Is that a nice way to say you can't keep it in your pants? :p

The LD thing is HARD... but sometimes worth it.”

“In keeping with my policy of complete honesty, I've cheated twice but never repeated.

First time was with my first SO, second time was with my last SO.

First time was stupidity/young hormones
2nd was the relationship was dead.

Yes, I'll never stay in a relationship again that has died.”

“Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

“Cheating bad.

Fidelity good.

Hiking good too.”

“geesh, do you 2 wait for the other to post so you can post next =)”

“No, coincidence.

Flyi.com good too.”

“Hey, I posted first. :)”

“embear, if ok I would like to come over and see your place. let me know when your available.”

“Is that a proposition Ewker? ;)”

“Eddy, I have to work tomorrow until 2, but you could come over maybe later in the afternoon/evening or Sunday morning if you want. Do you have my phone#?”

“Bison, r u jealous? :)”

“Jealous! Now why would I be jealous? ;)”

“Once a cheater, always a cheater.”
embear
1:18:44 PM
11/05/04

All or nothing is unfair to describe anything or anyone. Stereotyping me is truly unfair.

The only all or nothing is "Dead or Alive".”

“Fair enough, but I have never met a cheater who has only cheated once.”

“This statement really says alot,,,

'In keeping with my policy of complete honesty, I've cheated twice but never repeated'.

LMAO,,,,son,,,never ever talk about cheating in public especially with women present.

BM,,please refer to Act. 10 of your HMWHC playersbook.”

“I don't excuse my actions but most have found both incidences to be quite extraordinary circumstances if I have the time to tell someone the whole story. They did occur 10 years apart and I do wish I had ended the 2nd relationship much sooner.

I honestly believe if you are thinking about cheating then the relationship should be ended. generally, it doesn't stand a chance at that point.

I believe I learned some valuable lessons regarding relationships and I hope never to make the same mistake.

BTW - the all or nothing and never meant one who didn't do it again is the reason men lie about this stuff.

Maybe the ones who have only done it once or twice ;) are smart enough to keep their mouths shut?”

“LMAO! Yes, I #&%!$ed up. However, in my defense, I would like it noted that from all the other crap I've said on here, my chances of hooking up with a femme TT'er is................none.

I, of course, would never admit to cheating if on an actual date.”

“So are you saying that all men cheat, but most lie about it? Ooooooh. That makes me feel real good about dating.”

“embear, I will be out of town this weekend and no I don't have your number. I could get it easily enough but thought I would let you volunteer to give it (your number) to me.

bison, you better be jealous. I may be old but I am not dead by any means ;)”

“Good question, embear, but that's not what I'm saying. Just saying the ones who did it once or infrequently probably can keep there mouths shut about it.

Fortunately(?) women are starting to catch up to men in this area.

I bet there must be reliable stats on cheating out there somewhere, no?
last edited: 11/05/04 1:54:04 PM”

“Honey,,,sadly we have never met but I can safely and honestly say,, the only lying I will do is in the bed with you.”

“Oh yeah Ewker, you're going to Sipsey? I teach until 8:30 or 9:00 every day next week. You are welcome to come over after that, but might be getting too late for you. My cell # is ***-****if you wanna call me. ( I will email you).

BM - women are catching up? On what, cheating?
last edited: 11/05/04 2:04:51 PM”

“OMG. I just posted my number. Please, nobody stalk me!”

“LMAO! PG & Embear! Edit your number, Duh!

And yes, women are catching up. married and attached women are cheating in greater numbers.”

“Damn - have to call off planned stalking then, since you said please.”

“Y2, don't you already have my number silly?”

“well, yes, maybe.”

“Y2 posted it all over capital Hill.”

“Hmmm. Maybe some rich politician will come callin......”

“If not here it is again,,, @@#-$%#@!!!!

Moooooohahahahaha!
last edited: 11/05/04 2:16:29 PM”

“Damn that's wrong!

Maybe Marion barry will call you?”

“embear, that isn't to late for me. I can stay up as long as need be. I will give you a call next week.”

“okie dokie.”

“Should I tell BM that Capitol Hill in Seattle is sort of a gay neighborhood? LOL”

“it is in DC too!”

“Oh my life is full of joy once again! And yesterday was looking so crappy.

I was on call at the restaurant. It's been slow (par for near holiday time) so I wasn't worried. I called at 4PM and much to my dismay they needed a food runner.

Affectionately known as, and called: "The Food Beeotch".

Waitstaff is scheduled about 1 runner shift/week and the manager forgot for Wednesday. Minimum wage plus server tipout= #&%!$ay pay.

Oh well. I get there and am not dissapointed, we're dead. I start an IV drip of coffee to stay awake.

Then for some reason we get moderatly busy around 8:00. The waitstaff is overwhelmed and I go into high food runner/server, schmozer extrodinare gear. I flirt with local Japanese-American Victoria who calls me her personal server and score a number as they leave. Then I really go into schmooze mode for Taira & Brittany, short brunett and long blond. Two hotties one would sell their soul for one night of sandwhich delight. They are obviously a couple which just encourages me. They invite me to the Drag King Show at Club Chaos. I tell them I probably won't get off in time but maybe next week?

As they leave Brittany slips a tip into my back pocket.

I finally found my true loves.

Things are really looking up.

At 9:30 we fill up. We notice how young everyone looks and realize that the new batch of interns are back, here for the $2 Marg pints. I'm happy but the two servers are not. Interns can be such crappy tippers.

By the time the last table is seated the servers (1 male, 1 female) are so annoyed they fight over who will not take it. A table of 4 noneuropean-American Hotties.

I reluctently (insert super sarcastic emoticon) take it.

"Sam" something something something something Nguyen (Vietnamese)

Shirley (Shelby? Shelly?) Something (Chinese)

"Steph" Whoknows(Mexican/Spanish)

??????????? ??????? (Persian)

I fall in love 4 times and spend most of the night with them. By 11PM the kitchen closed, my boss left and I didn't need to sneak sips of their disgusting Margs anymore. I could get something tastey from the bar now.

We closed the bar and exchanged info. I'm to meet them tonight and Saturday.

I love being in Love.

The Hangover sucks.
last edited: 1/06/05 9:32:15 AM”

“Be sure and write a trip report!


And include pictures!”

“What, no pictures to add to your report?”

“bm, that isn't love..that is LUST”

“It's True Love, Dammit! I Love Them All Equally!


picture questions

1. I asked the last set of interns who took pictures to send me copies but they never did. Some of the best pictures were in the restaurant. Is there any possible way of using my own camera at work without looking like a complete idiot?

2. I might have to suck it up and buy a camera. Can someone give me a few concise minimum reqs for decent digital close up shots of interns and perhaps for shots during those rare bp trips I might take in the future? :)”

“So when's the TT free drinks and food trip to Bearmagnet's restaurant?”

“can't get those perks for you, sorry. And note, the margs are standard on the rocks only and bottom shelf. It's a $2 pint and strong as hell, though.

Every Wednesday!
last edited: 1/06/05 10:09:00 AM”

“I'm pretty happy so far with my old Canon A40. It's just 2 megapixel, but it takes a good picture.

Here's a listing from Ebay for 2MP Canons”

“Bear, get a camera phone, they'll never know you took the pic : )”

“Thanks for the tips!”