bping with x girlfriends

“Where do I begin?

When either of the two people who are engaging in sex are involved with someone else, a lie happens. If I'm single but the guy I sleep with is involved in another relationship, I have just participated in the lie and
helped to hurt someone whether or not she ever finds out so I'm just as guilty as he is. What if the other woman is doing it, too? Well, then I just helped perpetuate the stupid games.

I want to be able to look myself in the mirror. It's about respect for myself and respect for other people. The truth is the way to go.

Skulking around is for cats.

Plus, that's why my boyfriend absolutely trusts me even when I go backpacking with other guys when he's on the other side of the world.


How's that for starters?”

“Interesting but I'm really disapointed in your trustworthiness. I was so looking forward to backpacking with you. ;)”

“Good job, Ruby!

""Laq - does the 2 seconds include the time required to get it out of your pants?..."

Depends on the person. If yer a *quick draw* then yes.

I will now differ to the others in this group, as this does not apply to me....”

“LOL

I thought I had killed the thread there for a moment.

Sorry to disappoint you, BM. :)




Hey...wait a minute. You can still look forward to backpacking with me. While I'm not gonna sleep with you, we could still tip back a few and tell dirty jokes around the campfire.”

“in all seriousness

i think cheatings bad m'kay.

i think the third party is just as bad as the cheater.

i also don't think it matters whether your married or not. it's still just as bad, but no worse.

what does make it worse is when kids are involved. married or not, if you've got kids, you're cheating on them - which to me is inexcusable.

and also, i would never really say *you complete me* either. i was just trying to be funny/corny incontrast to my previous post when i was trying to be funny/assholic.”

“you're married”

“Only time I was ever involved in anything like this, I found out after the fact that the chick was married. Freaked me out. I'm just glad her husband didn't come after me.”

“i was with a married chick once, but they were already separated.

don't know if that qualifies.”

“didn't I ask this same question a few months ago? I think it was on the nightcrawlers thread...

just don't count on me for advice, i could tell you how it turned out... but you'd probably be dissapointed”

“first of all

Really, put it back in yer pants. Two seconds of fun ain't worth a possible life time of trouble."
laqtis
07:33:58 PM
08/25/04

Wtf i dont get it!!!

Give her the broken lizard!"
walkindude
07:04:55 PM
08/25/04

I dont hink it is gonna be broken!!!! ROFL

I hear young kids are "experimenting" with oral sex because it's "not really sex"."
bearmagnet
07:12:21 PM
08/25/04

Hahahah expeimenting it is like a daily practice for many!!!!

Sorry I upset so many of the females but what can i say my morals only go so far!! :D

Anyway she claims that she wants to get back together with me (i think that is why she is coming out here) she said she "loves me"

THIS COULD GET MESSY”

“I like Ruby's comments.

I would add to the conversation, remember condoms leak and break. Other means of contraception also are not as reliable as we sometimes expect them to be.”

“What up Broke Lizard.

We were having fun with your thread. Nothing like fireing things up a bit!
hehehe”

“OK i guess i ahve no morals I was with a chick taht was married and had kids but they had an open relationship!!!

I guess I just sank another few notches huh!!”

“You Rock dude!”

“Dude, I hate to harsh ya, but you brought it on yourself by opening your pie hole and pretending to be cool.

You are an ass.

Read that slowly.

Again.

F-ing over a chick because she has intentions is wrong and it will come back and bite you in the ass at a later date, trust me.

Also, f-ing a married woman puts you on a plain lower than most if you are a knowing participant.

Seriously bro, that tells me that there is nothing right with you on your moral compass. Get a clue, get a life and get some direction in you life.

Signed,
An Old Man From Amsterdam”

“"OK i guess i ahve no morals I was with a chick taht was married and had kids but they had an open relationship!!!"

open relationship=sophomoric games=lots of pain and hurt=lots of hassle=lots of bs

Nope, no good ever came out of those types of relationships. And in my experience, one member of the couple never realized they had an "open relationship."”

“I have found it more exciting to hike with my xxx-girlfriend than my x-girlfriend. But that's just me.”

“Well i came under fire huh!!!

This shows how many different points of views and how many different generations post here!!!


Sorry if i really upset anyone i guess we just have different viewpoints on life!!!”

“And maybe i will take soem of the advice that has been THROWN at me to heart!!

I am changing alot of my ways maybe i need to rethink this one huh!”

“You aren't under fire, you are being offered harsh advice.

My advice being the most harsh, take it to heart. Life is a revolving door and some day you will face what you've given out. It sounds like a cliche, but it isn't.

Walk a straight walk and it will save you years of heartache. Walk crooked and you will feel the pain you've put others through.”

“Man i did that for a long time and alot of bad #&%!$ came my way that is why i moved to new mexico with my bro-inlaw and sister!!

This time maybe i will play it straight for once.

TY WW
but if she offers i aint gonna say no!!”

“Good MAN.”

“br0k3n l1z4rd: I was just sitting thinking how funny it would be if your ex-gf reads TrailTalk.

;)

What's her name anyway?”

“There's another indicator, broken lizard, of your personality. You just took a lot of people jumping all over you in stride. Good job. Welcome to TT.

:D

It's all good.”

“Who's makin' love with your ole lady
While you was out makin' love?

ww is talkin' about karma.

It's gonna gitchew!”

“This has to be the worst idea in the history of backpacking! LOL!”

“So why exactly is she coming to see you? Something doesn't sound right here.

Listen to ww, by the way.”

“Skulking around is for cats.

Plus, that's why my boyfriend absolutely trusts me even when I go backpacking with other guys when he's on the other side of the world.


How's that for starters?"
Ruby
07:44:34 PM



i resent that comment.
my cats do not skulk.”

“WEll she is coming out becsue her dad is makin her!! Let me explain her sister is coming out here with her 21 year old bf (she is 17) and he is origanlly from NM. SO my x's dad said she had to come to to keep an eye on her sister!

But i thinik the main reason she is coming out is to see me we really never talked since we broke up then we started talkin again when i moved out here cause i was try to tie up loose ends and fix things i #&%!$ed up back home (to many drugs and #&%!$ to realize i #&%!$ed os much stuff up) (drug free now) So she said she wanted to coem out and see me!!

I wanted to get out bad laborday so i told her if u are comin out we are goin packin and she said sounds good. She is the toughest cheerleader i ever meet and she loves to car camp so this will be a real adventure for her!

Once again TY ww for the advice I think alot about my karma and stuff but i never thought that #&%!$ like that would affect it i guess it does!!”

“lots o' drugs ==> broken lizard...

now it all comes together...”

“"lots o' drugs ==> broken lizard...

now it all comes together..."
sacco
09:28:49 AM
08/26/04

HAHAHAHAHAHA god now it even makes sence to me now!!! So that is why the damn thing doesnt work half the time!!”

“I for one want to get broken lizard and Bearmagnet to go out on the town for a few evenings and see what kind of trip report we get. It would be monumental!”

“Broken whatever --

When I am sitting in the nursing home, peeing in my depends . .. .


my only regrets will be the women I DIDN'T F when I had the chance. Not the ones I did.


Heck . . .I regret it now. When i was 19 I had all sorts of stupid morals and standards. I blew opportunities with at least a half dozen or more women.

I kick myself everytime I think about it.

have as much fun as you can, while you can. Do the old, "as long as you understand it can't be a long term thing becuase you are in Chicago" speech. As long as she is cool with that (or at least says she is) then have a blast.


PS: this is not a joke, I am not being sarcastic. Having Sex is about the most fun thing in the world . ..go for it.”

“WHOA!!!!! Wait there just a minute. She's 17? And you're 19?

Could this situation have any more bad potential?

Don't mess this up. If you do, she'll never go backpacking or camping again as she will always associate that with you.”

“"WHOA!!!!! Wait there just a minute. She's 17? And you're 19?
Ruby
09:40:01 AM
08/26/04

Can u read just kiddin

WEll she is coming out becsue her dad is makin her!! Let me explain her sister is coming out here with her 21 year old bf (she is 17)

HER SISTER IS 17

RUdy try”

“Let me explain this better - DO HER!!!!! :o)”

“Young, dumb, and full o' cum! LOL! Then again, I was married when I was 19!”

“Hey...wait a minute. You can still look forward to backpacking with me. While I'm not gonna sleep with you, we could still tip back a few and tell dirty jokes around the campfire."
Ruby
08:48:38 PM

Who said anything about sleep?????
;)”

“Ruby Said:

"Don't mess this up. If you do, she'll never go backpacking or camping again as she will always associate that with you"

What on God's green earth does this matter????


I mean really?! She is a big girl (over 17 according to Broken) and if she wants to go to New Mex to get laid . . more power to her. If she later regrets it and stays inthe windy city and never leaves again because she slept with her exboyfirend in New Mex . .who cares?? How the everliving hell is that Broken's problem?????


Why is he responsible for her future happieness??? Why shouldn't two young adults have fun and get it on???? Why shouldthey even begin to consider whether it will affect her future hiking???

good god people.



Just f-her and have fun!”

“I'm trying, I'm trying.”

““Just f-her and have fun!"

Never before has one person been summed up so well with so few words. This is lee in a nutshell. Lee probably has a cross stitch sampler with this mantra hanging on his wall at home. LOL!”

“Man let me tell u if she is walking around askin for it (like she ussually does) then she is gonna get it!!!

Ohh and when i say askin for it i dont mean verbally i mean physically!

But i am not gonna put in any extra effort to get in her sleeping bag!!”

“lee, if you were a general and i was a soldier

i'd follow you into the gates of hell and back.”

“Men can think about 2 things?
"Well just not at the same time right? ; )"
pixie

What a wonderfully naive assumption here. We don't even have to think about that - we just go where the little guy points.

Seriously though, if it's something either of you are likely to lie about - don't do it. It's as simple as that. It would have to be something pretty monumental, like saving a life, to be worth your integrity.”

“put a helmet on that soldier!”

“I dont leave home without a helmet!!!”

“HeII, do both her AND her sister!!!!!”

“Well, Bearmagnet, that is my most favorite kind of "sleeping." And lots of it. But only with my guy.”

“with Pixie...can we please.”