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takin x-girlfriend to the pecos
So my x-girlfriend from chicago is coming out to New Mexico this weekend and i am takin her packin.

This should be interestion wonder if I will get lucky! SHe has a bf but she had a bf the other time to!!!!
br0k3n l1z4rd
4:15:57 PM
8/25/04

Gauging off of my x girlfriends, I'd be lucky for them to NOT go bpacking with me. Maybe you will have better luck.
Memphis Hiker
4:20:00 PM
8/25/04

How old are you?
StoveStomper
4:21:22 PM
8/25/04

19
DOES AGE MATTER
br0k3n l1z4rd
4:24:36 PM
8/25/04

Yes age does matter
Read your post. You sound pretty immature. All you are worried about it getting laid. So typical.
pixie
4:34:47 PM
8/25/04

LOL at Pixie!
Wounded Knee
4:37:02 PM
8/25/04

I'm old and tired
And I tell it like it is.

So there ya have it. ; )
pixie
4:39:50 PM
8/25/04

Come on, lets not be too harsh. Can you imagine being young, male, and in the tent with your ex?

He's just wondering, in a round about way, if it's such a good idea.
bearmagnet
4:40:14 PM
8/25/04

Sounds like me!
Wounded Knee
4:40:29 PM
8/25/04

sorry
I don't mean to be harsh, but he asked. I kind of meant it in a joking way anyhow. I'm not THAT uptight. Well maybe a little. : )
pixie
4:43:48 PM
8/25/04

It's all good Pixie!
Wounded Knee
4:44:54 PM
8/25/04

LMAO! I'm being half sarcastic, myself. But I do believe most of us males only thought about one thing at 19.

I believe I'm old enough now to think about two things...
bearmagnet
4:46:11 PM
8/25/04

I don't think about that anymore, well maybe a little.
Wounded Knee
4:47:02 PM
8/25/04

Men can think about 2 things?
Well just not at the same time right? ; )
pixie
4:49:07 PM
8/25/04

Pixie...
nah, never mind ;~)
currahee
4:49:20 PM
8/25/04

It hurts to think about 2 things at once.
Wounded Knee
4:51:01 PM
8/25/04

The question is not so much, "will you get lucky?"

We all know the real question is whether or not you will take predatorial advantage of the sweet girl who innocently chose to go backpacking with you.

Whose idea was it to go? Yours, or hers? And who says just because she is out in the woods with you, that she will see it (as you do) to rekindle a lost relationship?

Perhaps she trusted you, and knowing that you were bf/gf before, knows you will enjoy your past friendship, and not see it as a chance for you to get her good and drunk?

(And we all know what happens next).

Will you get lucky?

My vote is "Nope. Sorry. Close but no cigar."
SecretDisorder
4:56:37 PM
8/25/04

HAHAHA
First of all when it comes to get lucky i am the innocent one!!!

As for rekindling a relationship she lives in chicago i live in new mexico dont realy want to rekindle anything!!!

Man i sound like a jackass huh??
br0k3n l1z4rd
5:03:33 PM
8/25/04

Men can think about 2 things?
"Well just not at the same time right? ; )"
pixie
04:49:07 PM
08/25/04

Hell no!

Kind of like when women are trying to figure out what they are going to wear on a date. I've seen some pass out because they forget to breath! :D
bearmagnet
5:05:04 PM
8/25/04

Man i sound like a jackass huh??"
br0k3n l1z4rd
05:03:33 PM
08/25/04


UH...YEAH!!! What about morals and respect for her boyfriend! And for yourself!
Tango
5:12:48 PM
8/25/04

HEY
If u knew her boyfriend u would have kicked his ass!!!

Kid is lucky i left town!!!

Finally a voice of reason here TY Bearmag
br0k3n l1z4rd
5:14:56 PM
8/25/04

Seems to me the best way to protect her then from her awful bf is to not try to sleep with her. If she asks why, tell her as long as she has a bf, out of respect to her, she is off limits to you. That may be the impetus she needs to give him the boot. That also may boost her own self-respect.

I have never understood why people mess around on either end with other people who are involved in a relationship with someone else. People should not overlap relationships. Very bad form.
Ruby
5:42:33 PM
8/25/04

Don't listen to them all - do her ;o)
ynamiynami
5:55:36 PM
8/25/04

ROFLMAO ynami! That's telling it straight!

I almost snarfed coffee!

I guess I'll be able to count on you for the wrong (?) advice at the bars?
bearmagnet
6:05:13 PM
8/25/04

LOL at y2

i never had a gf i DIDN'T cheat on until my current one.

now we've been together 7 years.

the kids 19 for christs sake.

screw all you want. just wear condems.

thats my advice.
sacco
6:05:21 PM
8/25/04

...and dental dams?
bearmagnet
6:06:13 PM
8/25/04

or, put another way
save your monogomy for someone special. like i did.

love will find you in the end.

and when you find that someone who completes you; your soulmate - then you give them your all.
sacco
6:08:43 PM
8/25/04

...and never, I mean NEVER, use the lame expression "she completes me".

;)
ww
6:25:22 PM
8/25/04

[shaking my head and rolling my eyes]
Ruby
6:41:20 PM
8/25/04

cheating??
If your using a rubber then it ain't actually cheating because technecially your not actually touching her.
plus you got to consider that it don't count when your that many zip codes apart.
Also your not the one cheating if you don't have a wife or GF. She would be the one "messin' around" and that really shouldn't concern you. She'd be the the one that may possibly feel guilty. There is a reason she's your ex GF. Keep it that way.
Now go get some dude. Give her the broken lizard!
walkindude
7:04:55 PM
8/25/04

walkindude
I disagree. I think folks need to be responsible for themselves. I don't condone anyone messing around with someone who should be in an exclusive relationship. For instance single people who mess around with married people. I have no respect for em.
pixie
7:08:10 PM
8/25/04

Then don't do it.
walkindude
7:09:29 PM
8/25/04

Give her the broken lizard!"
walkindude
07:04:55 PM
08/25/04

LOL, classic.
hubcap
7:10:08 PM
8/25/04

"If your using a rubber then it ain't actually cheating because technecially your not actually touching her."

So your SO's/mates are free to have sex with other people as long as protection is used? And vice versa?

I hear young kids are "experimenting" with oral sex because it's "not really sex".
bearmagnet
7:12:21 PM
8/25/04

Amen, Pixie.

I have so much to say on this issue, but I have a feeling it won't change anyone's opinions. And I don't want to aruge. So I'll just keep my mouth shut right now except to say how sad for humanity that our society can actually justify this scenario in some twisted way.
Ruby
7:14:19 PM
8/25/04

Somehow, I don't think my wife would agree with any of this.


lol!
bitpusher
7:15:20 PM
8/25/04

ROTFLMMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
walkindude
7:17:22 PM
8/25/04

Believe me Walkindude
I stay far far away from "unavailable" guys. And to think of all the times they have tried to pick up on me or hook up. Scoundrels! I shoot them down. Pow! Pow! (blowing smoke from the end of my gun.)
pixie
7:17:32 PM
8/25/04

I wanna hear it, Ruby!
bearmagnet
7:18:16 PM
8/25/04

You're trying to egg me on, aren't you, bearmagnet?
Ruby
7:22:25 PM
8/25/04

You don't need me after what's been posted here! I am sincerely curious as to what you have to say.
bearmagnet
7:27:03 PM
8/25/04

As a fisherman, I think I detect a hook on that lure.
ww
7:29:11 PM
8/25/04

To be honest with ya. I'm just stirring up some fun by posting that. I've never cheated on anyone.

But..... If someone else does it, it's their business.
walkindude
7:29:25 PM
8/25/04

Age appropriate behavior. When I was 19 I didn't have enough loose skin to close my eyes.
Snake Eyes
7:32:08 PM
8/25/04

I hear young kids are "experimenting" with oral sex because it's "not really sex".

Depends on what your definition of "is", is.

Sorry, it was there.
klr11
7:33:00 PM
8/25/04

"Never cheated"? Never ever?????


Honestly, I don't believe the 3rd party is doing anything wrong if he/she doesn't know the party of the 2nd. I think.
bearmagnet
7:33:21 PM
8/25/04

"Man i sound like a jackass huh??"...."

either that or the next President of the HMWHC!


Really, put it back in yer pants. Two seconds of fun ain't worth a possible life time of trouble.
laqtis
7:33:58 PM
8/25/04

Laq - does the 2 seconds include the time required to get it out of your pants?
Snake Eyes
7:36:00 PM
8/25/04

That's what the rubber is for.
walkindude
7:36:23 PM
8/25/04

Honestly, I don't believe the 3rd party is doing anything wrong if he/she doesn't know the party of the 2nd. I think."
bearmagnet
07:33:21 PM
08/25/04

Yeah, that's how it works.
walkindude
7:40:47 PM
8/25/04

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