TT confessional. Step into the booth.

“Bear, excuse me for being harsh. What would you call a women if she wanted to have a relationship with a married man, "your type of gal", lol?

strumpet, flour, eggs, water and baking powder, oh, no, that's struffle.”

“What would you call a women if she wanted to have a relationship with a married man,

Average?


Can someone quote odds on this type of occurance?”

“Well, if the married man is me, apparently pretty damn low.”

“they want a married guy.”

“Bear, this thread is listed as chatter, so you can't ask flame questions like that. It's just not right!

The answer is so simple. To answer your question, men cheat more and the reason why is because they cheat with the same cheating women that they pass around.”

“lol, I just got a mental picture of the "Cheating Husband's Network" with a website showing pics of the "Available Cheating Women of the Month"...”

“You started the whore thing! At a bar I look for The ring. If I see The ring I look for The Hubby. If I don't see The Hubby then I forget about The ring.

What's it to me if she's married? Who am I to judge her reasons?”

“A cheater, be it a woman or a man is the lowest type of whore there is. Even lower than crack whore. And I do agree with you Lipstick, men cheat way more than women.”

“Just when I think BearMagnet can't be a bigger pig he raises (lowers) the bar. [shaking head]”

“bit, LMAO!!!!

Bear, you have a point since it's not you that is cheating, it's her, though some men may feel the woman may have no reason except that she is a, yes, I'm saying it again, a whore, and want no part of her dishonesty to her husband.

Nigal, I can see men cheating while they are young and have stronger urges, but then they peter out when they get older and women get stronger urges, so maybe it equals out?”

“Life is about getting your nut.”

“"Nigal, I can see men cheating while they are young and have stronger urges, but then they peter out when they get older and women get stronger urges, so maybe it equals out?”

I'd say they do it just as much when they are older. Especially if they are married. Nothing can give a cheating man the urge to cheat like feeling trapped in a marriage. It’s still no excuse though. But I am of the "once a cheater, always a cheater' ethos.”

“Isn’t it more likely that she was looking down to check for a colostomy bag?”

“*None? Huh!… I figured that disgusting old pervert would have one.*”

“LMAO”

“Nigal, I kind of feel that once you have cheated, you broke a bond that is now easier to repeat, so that may be part of why a cheater is always a cheater, plus cheaters don't have a strong moral values.

This guy on tv answered about how he stays married, and he said you love your wife, and keep your.....in your pants.

A person can always meet someone else that is suited for them after they are married, but since marriage is a committment, you just let it pass you by.”

“I am of the mind that if your marraige is weak enough that you'd cheat then ya shouldn't be married in the first place. Get a divorce and then go screw around all ya want.”

“Nigal, sometimes it's not the marriage, but the people involved and their lack of character.”

“Okay, on the more men vs women thing...

Unless a man is cheating with his hand, there's a woman out there on the other side...

Not saying it's right or wrong, just that both men AND women are involved and the sooner they both admit it, the sooner the recriminations will end and we can get on with it....yo?...LMAO”

“SuperTroll, I'm telling you, it's like Bitpusher says, there is a site where they host a "whore" of the month, so it's the same woman men are cheating with over and over again!”

“Yeah and her name is JEZEBELLE.”

“I have invited another man to come and see me! Oh my what will Chili say!”

“You love her
But she loves him
And he loves somebody else
You just can't win
And so it goes
Till the day you die
This thing they call love
It's gonna make you cry
I've had the blues
The reds and the pinks
One thing for sure

(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah”

“"Somebody gimme a beer."”

“OMG that sounds just like like him!”

“or, let's go to Hooters!”

“Hmmm...mebbe so...”

“Hooters is off the list tonight, WK.”

“I can see that Nigal and LH have a basic agreement going here, and to you both I say, I understand...and believe that if you surround yourselves with like thinking people, cheating will not be MUCH of an issue for either of you in your lives.

Reality says that try as you might to avoid them, there will be people within your chosen circle that will tempt you, and the strength of character you have will be sorely tested. To stumble is not to fall...

Give into lust and you will never find love.


(I saw it printed on a young girls T-shirt a few years back, and have not forgotten it).”

“I like that ST.”

“Troll, what about prostitutes? Men don't have to go with other married women. Then again, women have to find men to cheat with since they don't typically use male prostitutes.”

“LH never saw "Deuce Bigalow"...”

“bit, nope, never saw Deuce Bigalow and I don't think I ever will, that's unless you hold me at gunpoint, lol:)”

““Reality says that try as you might to avoid them, there will be people within your chosen circle that will tempt you, and the strength of character you have will be sorely tested. To stumble is not to fall...”

I view the fact that I personal feel it is one of the few unforgivables as my shortcoming. If someone has the ability to forgive someone for cheating and trust them again, hey, more power to them. It’s outside of my abilities though.

I think I’m lucky because I am not really comfortable in the places most temptation takes place. I don’t do bars, strip clubs or other ogling places and I have no female co-workers. I have no doubt I can withstand any temptation put before me though.”

“To any people out there that may consider cheating, the other person, if they want to be with you will call your wife/husband and let them know what you are doing, so as to free you up for a relationship with them.

A friend had her fiance cheat on her, and the girl sent a card to their home since they lived together, and it said that she had a great time with him. You say, well, pick a married person and they won't do that, but she was married, but unhappily married. So my girlfriend put off their marriage for another year until she regained trust in him.”

“http://members.yahoo.com/interests?.oc=a

Try this:

Gender: Female
Age: 35-50
Marital Status: Married but looking
Location: (Type in your state)
then hit Search

YAHOO is, relatively speaking, quite tame...there are THOUSANDS of swinger clubs, message boards, web sites etc...

Question: Is it cheating if your spouse gives permission or joins in? (Opinions vary...)

Humans are a strange species....in some cultures sleeping with others is the accepted norm...

Choose the path you want to follow, and follow it.....”

“193 total, with 67 adding a photo.....

Total for the 35-50 age group only”

“Select Gender: Male and search...

If someone is looking, a willing soul is waiting...

Now I will state again...I'm not endorsing these things, I'm simply making you aware that "Cheating" is not something only men do, and it is much more prevalent than you think.”

“Everyone creates their own marriage rules, so if having sex with others is okayed by the spouse, then it's not wrong for them, though I think the wedding vows say to forsake all others, but maybe they wrote their own vows, saying, "check with me before you fvck someone else then it's okay" :)”

“I saw a crack whore once. Its hard to imagine that theres anything worse then that. I would never cheet on Mike (unless brad pit offered, then maybe)”

“I think a pretty young woman tried to pick me up at the grocery store last night.

She came up and said excuse me. I turned around and saw her holding a cantaloupe in each hand about chest high. She asked if I knew how to pick out nice cantaloupes.

I didn’t do her though.”

“Just when I think BearMagnet can't be a bigger pig he raises (lowers) the bar. [shaking head]”
Nigal
4:57:28 PM
2/09/05

Dude, In my opinion, you seem to take a very realistic/pragmatic outlook to most things. Why not here?

You call me a pig for what? For honesty? To the best of my knowledge, I have never slept with a married Women. Engaged, yes. not that it matters but she pursued me and frankly.....it took a little bit of work on her part to get me.

LOL!

Sorry, she was a fellow waitress, God she was hot.

Reality is people cheat. People that call cheaters "whores" or "sluts" do so out of insecurity, IMHO.

"It can't be me, my partner must be a slut".

Regardless of cheating being right or wrong, something is wrong with the relationship.

It always takes two to F*** up a relationship. Not a slut.”

“I had an instance where someone offered. She knew I was engaged and that I loved Barbie very much. This girl had a problem in falling in love/wanting to sleep guys that were either married or were dating.

After the offer, I said now if I cheat on Barbie with you and let's just say Barbie an I break up and we get together. What is to stop me from cheating on you with someone else. Have not see her since.”

“No BM it only takes one person to be weak. Marriage is about commitment, not about happiness although you certainly hope for that. Cheating says a lot more about a persons moral strength then it does about a relationship.”

“Bison - I'm saying it takes two for a relationship. You can call the cheater weak. But that's an obvious observation. The weaknesses on the other side of the coin are invisible to all but the cheater so we only judge the obvious.

I respect your opinion but disagree, to me, it's about the relationship.

And if I'm ever in an unhappy marriage or my spouse is, then it's time to split.”

“Won't it be interesting to see WHO BM might eventually marry? :-)”

“I smell sarcasm?”

“Wounded, worrying about if the person that they are cheating with will cheat and visa versa is the ultimate revenge a cheated on partner can get from the bad experience, because their cheating spouse's new friend will always wonder and accuse them of cheating and the new relationship founded on cheating will never last and be a living hell.”

“From sweet little lizsbaby????
MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! ;-)”

“Flirting at the gym is fun. I've never understood the American fixation with wedding rings either. If someone is gonna cheap then a removable band aint gonna make much difference.”