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What I leaned from TTView MessagesWhat I leaned from TT “Honesty can be a liability. Lying can be an asset. If you question anyone, it is an attack. If someone calls you dickless it is not because they are cuntless. The silent majority is often silent. Some people lack a sense of humor. Anything goes as long as it is immoral or illegal. Some people don't like me. Some people do like me. None of this matters :-)” 11:41:30 AM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “bacpac Are you bored?” 11:47:24 AM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “I like you bacpac But I had the bug up my ass that must people are born with surgically removed” 12:14:00 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “I like you pretty good too bacpac. I admire the way you don't hesitate to speak your mind. Of course there's been time I wanted to piss in your Corn Flakes.” 12:21:26 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Shhhhh...I'm part of the silent majority.” 12:22:59 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “geewiz, I wasn't born with a bug up my ass. I had it surgically implanted.” 12:36:39 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “bacpac, I agree with you sometimes, and I disagree with you sometimes, and sometimes it is the tactics, not the central idea, with which I have a problem. The medium also muddies the message; for example, sarcasm on the web is dangerous territory, even with emoticons. As for question/attack issue, how the question is presented or phrased is the key: Some questions seek information, others are really commentary disguised as inquiries, and commentary, by nature, is not neutral. Unfortunately, the most common pattern in interpersonal exchanges where a question is used as a disguised commentary or evaluative statement is to attack or denigrate. (There, just another warm-up for my fall communication classes -- credit available if you pay the fees, LOL.)” 12:37:08 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Stop attacking me pekka!” 12:50:28 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “I`ve learned not to take everything so serious. I`ve learned you can`t care about others until you first learn to care for yourself. I`ve learned two wrongs won`t make it right. I`ve learned everyone has something to say, if given the chance. I`ve learned we can`t all type, or spell good. I`ve learned the lighter side of a bad moment. I`ve learned keeping my big mouth shut and keeping my head down draws less fire. I`ve learned that there are some people that will argue with a fence post, or with anyone on TT. I`ve also learned that nothing actually matters much that I can do as a person in the big picture. I`ve learned from my mistakes, it`s a hard lesson, but a great teacher. I`ve learned to let things go in one ear and out the other. I`ve learned how to walk again and in time I`ll learn how to be happy once more. Now,.....if I could just learn to quit posting to these threads.LOL” 12:53:20 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Take that, and that, and some of this, too!” 12:53:32 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Dear Fence Post, You suck.” 1:12:13 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Aw, give the fence post a break, bacpac, it's just a little wired. What it needs is to get nailed, but everytime that happens, it ends up getting hammered, too.” 1:17:32 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Well BP, nobody - not newgirl, not anyone - has been as consistently skillfull at keeping themselves the center of attention and controversy. People who crave that kind of attention have learned a lot on TT from you.” 1:17:50 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “LOL,.....Pekka” 1:21:47 PM 8/12/01 Backpac's latest whining thread “Pekka is spreading communications!” 2:17:31 PM 8/12/01 BacPac's latest whining thread “or should I have said communications” 2:57:46 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “bacpac, I bet you learned that honesty was a liability way before you ever landed on TrailTalk.” 4:13:00 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “scree, In the real world honesty it is not a liablily.” 4:20:20 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Honesty is an admired trait, diplomacy is an acquired skill.” 4:34:35 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Tell that to Jesus.” 4:37:01 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “bacpac..we need to talk” 4:50:58 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Amen TX Bacpac I do have a sense of humor, I'm just a bit slow. Some girls are like that and I'm one of 'em. I laugh after everybody has gone home.” 5:07:49 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “LEANED?.. hMmmm.. *ducks*.. oh. you meant LEARNED?.. uMMM.. well the biggest so far is that there are a kewl bunch of folks I can't hardly wait to hike and party with.” 5:09:50 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “PedXing, does that mean I have to start wearing (to reference a recent flame war thread) a French letter when I talk to someone with whom I haven't had a long-term monologue-amous relationship?” 6:43:01 PM 8/12/01 Bacpac's latest whining thread “No Pekka, just harness the power of prophilactic thinking.” 9:14:54 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “I didn't know Richard Cranium was posting here. and by the way what the heck is an....... "emoticons"” 9:22:22 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Dick is a regular.” 9:56:20 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “It can be fun to stir the pot! Those that do not belong here never last that long anyway. Even the most hated person on this site is always welcome on a hike!” 10:21:00 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “AMEN to that” 11:01:59 PM 8/12/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Did you also learn that being an ignorant, redneck, racist doesn't fly with some of us Jive Turkeys backpackers? Anyone here about the plane that went down on the AT in MD? they closed the trail in that area! So what the hell with the Thru hikers do now? I would be pissed if I couldn't hike the whole AT because the police need to investigate. It's like accidents on the beltway, they close everything down in the middle of rush hour... sorry it just pisses me off!” 9:05:15 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “I mean "Jive Turkey backpackers" And "Hear" instead of "here" "Will" instead of "with"” 9:06:56 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “an emoticon is a theatric pekka- we hear what you're saying, but you're preaching to the choir..that it IS a bit dangerous is what makes it fun hey. it's a chatboard” 9:45:33 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Even poor spellurs can learn to poofreed!” 10:00:28 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “It`s one thing to look and yet another thing to see what you make of a thing may not be what it is to me both of us looking and not seeing it just right should lead us to understanding it, not a fight but, if it`s a fight you want, then just feel free this is the right place for that stuff, here on TT” 10:44:02 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Didn't you all pick up a copy of these rules when you were born? Rules for Being Human 1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around. 2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid. 3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error and experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately "works". 4. A lesson is repeated until it is learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you will then go on to the next lesson. 5. Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned. 6. "There" is no better place that "here". When your "there" has become a "here", you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here". 7. Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself. 8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours. 9. The answers lie inside you. The answers to life's questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen and trust. 10. You will forget all this. Oh, I guess #10 explains it all.” 11:03:42 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Very true Kleetn..lol” 11:18:00 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “sirpete, emoticon -- an icon signaling emotional content -- :) Biz, when you post to an "urban" message board, do you go by "Bid"? ;}” 11:32:16 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Don't post a thread "looking for a hiking partner"” 11:48:24 AM 8/13/01 I hate false truisms! “I like the list Kleetn, and think #7 is a useful thing to keep in mind... but it ain't true. We can hate things that hurt us or resemble what has hurt us, and can love things that have been good to us or resemble it. In fact, I think this pleasure or pain link to love and hate comes way before the more "psychological" love and hate in #7.” 11:56:42 AM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “BP, I agree with you sometimes and sometimes I don't, but that's what makes people different. I respect your opinion, right or wrong. I try to have a sense of humor and remember not to attack. Do unto others as you would have others do unto you. Think before I speak and pick my battles. Not everything is worth arguing about. I still hate generators.......” 12:15:00 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “I have to disagree with you bacpac. IMHO honesty is always a liability and lying is always beneficial in the real world. I have yet to either experience or witness a situation where honesty ever benefitted anyone.” 2:53:09 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “pekka- Bid, good one :P” 3:06:05 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “what communications courses do you teach? Interpersonal, Mass, engineering?” 3:32:17 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “wsexson, I'm sorry you feel that way but I can't say I share the opinion. Honesty has ALWAYS worked for me and honesty benefitted anyone who wanted to work for me. If I caught someone lying to me they were fired on the spot. I can't afford dishonesty.” 3:56:05 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Biz: interpersonal, rhetoric, business, technical, mass -- the whole ballgame. Our department only has four instructors, and we're a big department at our school.” 4:02:48 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Well, honesty is the only way to operate in my life. And I can honestly say that I've learned to respect bacpac...well, in some ways. But it don't matter much so oh well. I like the wisdom of Bigfoot. I think I'll make that into a poster and put it up in my office.” 8:55:34 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “I learned that if you post a thread called, "Looking for hiking partner", The hottest chick in the forum may accept.” 8:57:53 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “I learned that even after ya graduate, teachers come after ya with lessons :) pekka- how long have you been teaching?” 9:20:21 PM 8/13/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Thanks Sonrisas, you saying that made me go back and read it again, I wasn`t sure what I might have said..lol” 12:04:21 AM 8/14/01 RE: What I leaned from TT “Hey Pekka... ever read Kenneth Burke? If so whadya think?” 9:00:30 AM 8/14/01
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